So things continue on a positive note.. only thing that has me a little confused my w tried to start an argument with me just very Kurt and snippy. I looked at her smiled and said “. I don’t know why your upset and I feel there isn’t enough time for you to explain (she had work) so please have a good day and rest assured I will to. She had a look on her face I had to turn away so I wouldn’t smile again at her. She apologize to my son later in the day and actually came and seen me later and visited well I worked in the yard.
I feel like I’m being tested just little things but I know when I have reacted the right way because my w will actively search out me.
I look at the changes in myself and even my kids and it is all good things. They never had a problem showing there love to their mother and now the w will always make statements like if the want me to or I don’t know if they want.
It’s like she is trying to convince her self that we don’t want her around she sees things we have accomplished around the house and she will almost break into tears.
That last bit didn’t sound positive but she is making the choice to be at the house and be involved with family outings on a regular bases.
First time in months I did some snooping it had me so bothered I could not sleep last night. I check a phone bill mostly because my w is being a little vague about time she spends with a friend this friend is not pro marriage Rec and it gets me going 0-60. Having a hard time minding my own business and just moving forward....
