still struggling

[Jim1234]

Saw my W at a Halloween party last night and at the beginning of the night, for the reasons mentioned above, suggested just going forward with the refinancing. She said she thought that would be a good idea because she was feeling a lot of pressure.

A few times she came and joined conversations I was having. I'm not reading anything in to that, but it was nice to think she wasn't avoiding me.

Thank you guys for clueing me in to this aspect.