Sandi and Joejoe, I appreciate your insights. I guess if I just refinance, it won't make any difference in the long run, and it will take the pressure off her.
Or am I misunderstanding? Should I have not said anything and just let the divorce proceed? If so, do you have any suggestions as to what to do now?
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
