As a fan who has read all 20 threads, I can say yes, they are very helpful. You have shared some very hard earned wisdom that no book or counselor could share. In terms of closure or acceptance, you and Andrew may be talking about the same thing using different words. I do think it is different in that your son is only 10 and not 23. Both of you have gotten off your w’s Crazy trains in your own healthy way.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving