Is your wife's lack of sleep the result of staying out partying during the week, or is it the result of school and work?
If she had been your child in college or a friend who is crashing with you for a week or two, would you have responded that way?
And is giving her advice instead of validating a common communication pattern for you?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
