in a survey of spouses, the 2 things women wanted most were
fidelity and security.
IMO, Security means physical safety (I'll back you up when you are checking out the weird noised downstairs) and
yes financial security.
Men wanted attractiveness (trophy?) and peace in the home, (which I assume means no complaining, even if valid?)
there are ways to see things with our user bias
like when the fans of 2 teams watch the same game and there are bad calls,
each side attributes 50% more bad calls against them, than the other. It's as if they were watching two different games.
Just FYI
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