I do not disagree with your desire to reconcile at all. This is a pro m site.
But you simply don't understand the term or concept of detachment in the DB world.
You are using a term of your own. And arguing about why we are wrong.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016