As you know I had to move out due to her attitude towards my children and me progressively being more toxic if I could have I would have stayed in the FH. I want to be smart about detachment that's all.
Rose why would you want to emotionally detach from your WS if he's willing to work on your MR? If I get to that point I'm all in to create a brand new and improved R that is full of loving emotion towards my S aren't we not supposed to provide EN's and is this the reason I'm here in the first place..?
Your post should bring hope to all here as you NEVER detached from your WS stayed together through his A and STILL managed to RC. I just can't agree especially being in that close contact you emotionally detached totally BUT detached smartly and that's what I am trying to portray here..
The trophy incident is about territory NOTHING about pursuing WW. Not meeting OP is about me staying out of prison and smacks of her pursuing.
I stood up for my boundary as it has major implications with my sanity and allowing me to heal by NOT suffering too much with visions of my W with another man. I feel what has come from our conversations is that A's affect men and women differently.
I congratulate you in piecing and hope no I'm sure it will go well.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
