Had a run in with W on Tuesday night. She was very frustrated and told me I'm deliberately trying to interfere with her time with S11, S17. I'm punishing her as I won't "swap" time with her. If she is not able to be with the boys - I take a day in lieu. That allows me to have the boys for other events etc.
So every time she cannot see the boys on her assigned day, she has to forfeit that day....plus give you an extra day for whatever event you want to have them? Please tell me I misunderstand.
Is she right? Are you subconsciously punishing her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
