Im sorry that youre here. Its a crummy place to be for sure, but keep posting and youll get some good advice.
For your question, my guess is as good as yours. But frankly, it doesnt matter much. I think you need to turn your focus inward on what you need to do to address your own issues. Are you GALing? Are you still seeing a counselor?
By the way, I would ABSOLUTELY not leave the home without some signed agreement about custody. Once you leave, it can be impossible to get back in. In a your word vs. her word, youre probably going to lose.
