Irish, I am so sorry to hear that your daughter's heart is broken. Lots of TLC for now. It's always so heartbreaking to see them like this.
I don't put much stock in what your xw has shared about the therapist. Some are not the best, but when a MLCer goes to a therapist, they pick and choose what they want to hear and apply it their situation. I know that you will take what she says w/a grain of salt.
As for your remarks, I think you handled the situation quite well. You told the truth, and yet, you told her that you were willing to meet up w/her. She's inching her way towards waking up just a tad...but she's still got a ways to go.
Hugs to you and your girls, but especially your daughter who is hurting right now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
