Quick update...W is, at present, very into our relationship. She has been happy while she's with me, and based on the volume of texts I receive, wanting to be with me when she's apart from me. She's been understanding when I get irritated or stressed out. We've even had sex and been able to talk about it.
I've continued to be mellow and easy going and providing few opinions on things like decor and stuff that means a lot to her...and it's actually a lot easier to just not care.
The way she says "I love you" is very different than before. It's proactive on her part, and she seems genuinely grateful for me being in her life.
6 weeks ago she was talking adamantly and with full certainty about divorce. This seems like a very sudden change after literally years of stress and anxiety on both of our parts.
Maybe the fog has lifted. Maybe the AD meds worked their way out of her system finally. I'm not totally sure what to trust here.
