Parkema I think you are so worried about having her back to the point that you are doing things that make you less attractive to her. Try to detarch and focus on your own happiness. Remember they say that you get a partner to complement you meaning on your own should be happy. I dont think yor happiness shoould depend on her coming back or not. If she chooses not to come that is her loss but I would encourage you to focus on making yourself a better person. Look at your flaws and work on them, GAL and never give her a hint that you cant leave withot her because it makes her feel like she was too good for you. You need to prepare yourself for the worst understand issues you have and work to build more self confidence and dealing with all weaknesses you may have. That helps a lot. You are doing this for you. Be patient and take heart.


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC