Mark, we're just trying to help you buddy. I know you're frustrated and angry, but I'm not sure you know -why-. It's not because of us or what we're saying. If you read things that make you angry then just stop, take a deep breath and ask yourself why it is making you so mad.
Originally Posted By: Parkema
You lack understanding of my situation.
We don’t live together – detachment We don’t spend time together EXCEPT hand-overs - detachment
Those things are absolutely not detachment! Separation does not equal detachment, not at all. You could be a thousand miles away and not see her for 10 years and still not be detached. Detachment is MENTAL, not physical.