Mark, we're just trying to help you buddy. I know you're frustrated and angry, but I'm not sure you know -why-. It's not because of us or what we're saying. If you read things that make you angry then just stop, take a deep breath and ask yourself why it is making you so mad.

Originally Posted By: Parkema

You lack understanding of my situation.

We don’t live together – detachment
We don’t spend time together EXCEPT hand-overs - detachment


Those things are absolutely not detachment! Separation does not equal detachment, not at all. You could be a thousand miles away and not see her for 10 years and still not be detached. Detachment is MENTAL, not physical.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57