Tread, you are understandably VERY UPSET about the choices your W has made. It seems you're running on anger right now (I TOTALLY know how that feels).

But I feel like you want to even the score. You may regret that down the road. It's almost like you're asking for permission: "Hey, can I be totally immoral now, since W did?"

No one can tell you what to do here. You know what's right, and you know what you want. Be honest with yourself, act with integrity, and be authentic.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.