Coly

You have been given really good advice and my thoughts are the same as the others

If MLC is real it has to be in them -not us
if its about their unresolved childhood..that is deep and long ago- and we have no control over what happened to them or their lack of willingness to look at/fix themselves
and there is nothing . we can do to make them happy or fix this

I think you know that-

If you need space and time , take it
If you can't see him right now..trust that
do what you can to allow your pain and despair,,feel it ..release it -cry-journel
work on healing you-
sometimes that is all we can do and if the R with your H is meant to continue you can pick it up later with whatever strategy empowers you.
.If you are sick and can't be there for him anymore..allow it-trust it
your instincts are talking to you

figure out what is best for you right now and follow that-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow