Thank you 25! I too have had some realizations. 1. I'm allowing myself to be used and manipulated to serve her needs 2. I'm allowing her to eat a truckload of cake 3. She's figured out which buttons to push to silence me. All her " if you, I will" bulls£t 4. I would never allow anyone else to manipulate me like this so why let her 5. Nothing she said or says it truthful, it just suits the moment. 6. Time to let go and press on in life. I've wasted so much time and energy and paid too high a price to keep being a door mat and a welfare office 7. In due time she will either come to realize what she stands to lose or won't. Either way life must go on. I will not keep it on hold for her
And 8, I have flaws like everyone else. I recognize them. They don't define me. I don't deserve treatment like she keeps dishing. There is more to the menu than s^„t sandwiches. I want a steak....
By George I think you got it! Now time to take massive action to have the life you want for you and your children!
