You are right best to give it more time..you will know sometimes the other person will make the contact and things will unfold naturally
It doesn't sound like you are trying to create any new R with any of them as much as to get closure..Thats what I have with my XH family..closure--that takes time a lot of time- but the door is open if they have a need to contact me for any reason I have moved on but it took this long-- Take your time
There is NO wrong move we can make..only lessons we need to experience some good..some we perceive as not good but in the end we get to where we are and that place is always good
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