Tread -- in your very first post you wrote that your W started an affair with her sister's cousin. Do you mean her half-sister's cousin? And so the man and your W are not biologically related, are they?

AS/Gordie -- there are reasons why WW/MLC's do what they do. They are hard, if not impossible know, at times but things happened in their lives to bring them there. They might be acting irrationally but something brought them to this point in their lives.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final