Any Advice 3

[25yearsmlc]

*get out of HER head

and focus on yourself. You will go nuts otherwise, and that does not help your cause

and it does not help your kids

and you will slow down your progress every time you stare at her wondering what SHE will do next

or how she can do X or Y.

In case you don't know - believe me, I spent nearly 2 years wondering things, asking myself questions that truly have no good answer.

There are no satisfactory answers to WHY she's doing whatever she's doing.

I wish you could see that - because I learned it the hard way. And I wasted a ton of time asking those questions.

Wish I'd gotten back to my life sooner.