Thanks everyone. Still have the question about the two statements.
"The state of mind I'm in " "the place that I am" and "I feel dead inside. There is no oming back from that" Is this just WW script of is it something to be genuinely concerned with from a mental health stand point? Her mother is bipolar and suffers from depression, is on a boat load of meds. Does this need professional intervention?
to me, the question is NOT about her state of mind or whether she's in a depression.
It's about what YOU will accept in your life. How you want to raise your kids and live your life.
it's not about what is in her mind or heart. Her behavior is outrageous even by WW's standards. Guessing about the causes of this, seems to be more about your analysis of whether she'll come back to you.
Unless you believe she is a threat to herself (no hyperbole here, just a disclaimer)
her headspace has no room for you. Get out of your head.
IMO, you must, MUST get back to yourself, and if you think that means giving up, think again.
I'm sorry to give you a 2 x 4 here, but when you revolve your life around your w, you don't bring all that much to the table. So for your sake, (regardless of your w's choices)
and for your children's sake and for the possibility of a recon,
Become the man she fell in love with - but not FOR her, - for you.
LIVE WELL
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