I thought it was nice of SIL. As I have mentioned, his relationship with SIL and FIL is always up and down, so they see the truth. Own you're right, it's the future relationship that will be the issue. It's a good point and something I have thought about. If, let's say next holiday season, he's still w/ OW, I would think they would include her in their celebrations. I wouldn't expect them not to, but it absolutely would hurt. I do think I need to give things more time to unfold. My situation, in comparison, is still new and who knows what will happen even in a month.
As I said, it's really helpful to hear other perspectives. I appreciate the time you've taken to give that to me.
M:43 H:44 M:10 T:14 S:26 BD:7/21/17 H files for D:7/31/17 (haven't been served) PA:8/30/17
