That is what confuses me. Being an MNG would have me not even consider doing that. Therefore denying my own needs in the name if some moral code of mine. Which in turn hurts me in some way subconsciously. The moral compass is part of the MNG, which is why I am now questioning many of my life choices. I would assume that a lot of people would say screw this woman and live their own lives to the fullest until the WW decided to return.
One would assume that the LBS would be resentful if the WW did return after having their fun with God knows who. And here you're willing to move on and forgive without having a chance to do your own thing. While they had the chance to get it all out if their system.
