Hi Sandi really sorry about that confusion! 'Twas a late night conribution on my phone in the bath so I was probably nodding off (time difference and all that). What of course I meant was exactly what you have just clarified, i.e. that WWs have this sense of entitlement. The posting probably contained more than a hint of sarcasm on my part and was describing my Ws mindset (which I will prob never work out) and how she has to "carry" everyone in her household and how she needed to escape all this (in her own mind).
thank you again for all your help
Me 55, W 50 D 8 M 20 T 27 MIL w/ us BD 01/02/17 workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA) OM senior manager, long term W, child 14 now: limbo (my choice)
"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains