fwiw I don't think there are words to be said in any correct order, that will reach your wife.
Please Don't bother. She cannot hear you.
I say this^^ as a wordsmith lawyer who spent so much of my life trying to make my h care more about our family & marriage.
Time I could've spent on better things, like creating a new life for me & the kids.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016