From your earlier post, it is not really forgiveness alone that troubled you, so much as wanting to feel the way you once did? The time machine piece.
Esther Perel's work will help some, I hope. I worry she's referring to a small minority of couples, post affair. (At least in our culture).
OTOH, Div Busters are a small minority too.
Anyhow, just wanted to ask
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016