Chapter 5 - Turning over to a new page

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Andrew P:

Thanks for you reply. I would love to connect with you face to face. I so enjoy your posts. Let's figure out how to do that without breaking the T&C's


You are right on so many things. D21 was shocked that her mom just showed up with the OM and expected she and her brothers to go have brunch with them. Apparently W asked them each months ago if it was OK if she date. I think that was a rhetorical question.

I took the opportunity to talk to my sons about the damage that premarital and extra marital sex brings.

I'm no where near detachment. It's been over 2 years since BD.

I may contact him. Remember I contacted her EA partner. He ran like a 10 year old girl.

If the M is over - what difference does it make and I'd be proud to tell my sons that I did not just lie down like a bump.

On another note: W and I had a run in last night. I did the best listening and Validating to date. See I'm learning.

I've invited her over for dinner to talk and see our very sick dog. Chances are 0 she is coming. 0 expectations.