Actually W and her sister ended up renting a 2 bedroom home together. SIL gave up on her plans to move to Florida, clearly after being manipulated by her own sister. Never occurred to any of them to get a 3rd bedroom for when S14 stays there. But one of W complaints to me was wanting to be by herself. Now she is stuck with her Parrott if a sister who ahe treats like a child. And spending all kinds of time with my abusive MIL. But yet this is better than being with our family?
But you right about me wanting certainty. I work with really dysfunctional families on a daily basis. Which only makes me want to ensure that my own life is in order. Easy to see how out of control things can get. Whereas my W comes from a dysfunctional family, so this is all normal to her.
