Although this came from a poster on your last thread, I wanted to respond....in case it caused confusion.
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The A is clearly their special private thing which they are entitled to of course (thank you Sandi, 25)
I don't think he meant to word the above quote to sound as if I and 25 were saying anyone is "entitled" to have an affair. In most cases we read on the board, the WW does have a sense of entitlement, and she will justify her actions.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!