Not to quibble

but 1) exposure to 3rd parties is not advocated by MWD and she has good research to back her up

AND

2) I swear I've never seen it bring back a spouse, to stay.

It's a form of shaming and I don't know how that would work in the long run.\

Definitely a deal breaker for me b/c

If I had an affair (speaking for ME) I'd either have justified it in some way-

OR it would have been a temporary weakness or temptation i gave into.

Neither would be helped by my h exposing it. I'd feel cornered and I'm pretty confident I would file.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change