but 1) exposure to 3rd parties is not advocated by MWD and she has good research to back her up
AND
2) I swear I've never seen it bring back a spouse, to stay.
It's a form of shaming and I don't know how that would work in the long run.\
Definitely a deal breaker for me b/c
If I had an affair (speaking for ME) I'd either have justified it in some way-
OR it would have been a temporary weakness or temptation i gave into.
Neither would be helped by my h exposing it. I'd feel cornered and I'm pretty confident I would file.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016