Try not to be too quick on the trigger. Make sure it is what you want before you go forward. Don't forget to discuss the choice of law issues (where you are best to file) with your lawyer, as well as how long he has been at the new job and what an income hike it is for him.
Glad to hear you are keeping yourself busy and really digging into your life there. I would love to take a rideshare and find myself in your car. It would be such a blast.