The affair may statistically die upon exposure, but if the wounded party is the one who EXPOSES, for whatever motivation, I can see this as very damaging for possible R. It would be a deal breaker for me, anyway, if I were in an affair, and my partner "exposed" it to the public.

Just being honest here.

M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton