Gordie: MLC W with a BF...negotiating our D #12

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Finalise and sign off the paperwork
Plan the separation
Inform children.

Hard as these final negotiations are, I imagine once the children are bought into the loop, that may well be tougher. It's probably a bit late but is there a clause in D about neither of ye introducing kids to OP for a period of at least six months?

Get out of that friend zone asap. Especially before you are asked to be best man or even to walk her down the aisle!!!


Great work not reacting to her by the way. Well done. Glad the agreement seems fair to you.Small consolation but still.

Your W is hooked on you being friends. I don't think that is healthy for you. I honestly think you need as little to do with her as possible.Apart from being good for you, it will be a blemish on the smooth perfect plan that W sees as reality. The kids will add more. Eventually these will add up and her perception of how it would turn out is nothing like what she actually gets.

Her latest revelations are laughable, well would be if you weren't the collateral damage. Stay strong.
Focus on what you need to do. Forget about long term plans. Take this day by day and hour by hour. Do what you need to get through and be a rock for your children. Then rebuild, improve and THRIVE

Best wishes