no one act erases all the work, even if only in your eyes.
But when you pursue like this, IMO (I know, I know) you validate her choice.
Because she must be a great catch for you to still pine for her and want her back in a heartbeat.
Park, she knows you are invested in the m. There is no doubt in her mind. At all.
You could ignore her for 6 months and she'd know you're still there for her no matter what. Her weird wish for you to meet OM means, to me, she's further down the road than you realize. (But to be fair, she had a head start.)
So get back to what you can work out for Christmas b/c it won't be her and you and the kids going into a time machine as if nothing has happened. You gotta deal with what is real.
Sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016