Originally Posted By: Parkema
We obviously both want our boys waking up with us on the day but they can’t be in two places at the same time, I basically said that I wouldn’t budge from my position but would personally prefer us ALL waking up together on Christmas day but said we are where we are and need to deal with it.


So what is the plan then going forward? I feel like there should be a plan for holidays set between you two. Do you really think that if you were divorced, you would have the kids every christmas?

As you said....you are where you are and need to deal with it. What are you going to do to 'deal with it' in this instance?