I agree with Sandi. While I sympathise with you for all you have gone through I feel you are playing with fire and you may not be able to stop things. Right now you are vulnerable and this OM providing what you really need. If you continue being close to him you will fall for him and may loose your marriage.This OM might look appealing because he knows he has competition and probably wants something with you so he will be very nice and appealing in order to get that. You might be suprised he has many other flaws too. For now he wont show, he will show only a good side to sweep you off your feet.


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC