Can I ask you a question? Or you trying no to hurt your wife feelings? Or you trying not to make her upset or mad at you?
Because it seems as if you are trying your hardest not to rock the boat. I think I posted it to you before, but you should read, "tough love"
Unfortunately, the mistake I believe I keep making is getting sucked into my wifes argument traps. As an example, tonight I was outside working on my car while the kids were getting ready for bed. The kids were loud enough I could hear them at tge street. I poked my head in the garage door and asked them to keep it down. I asked them where my W was since she did not seem to be doing anything about them yelling at the top of their lungs.
Just before bed tonight, she brought it up and said that she did ask the kids to quiet down and they did not. She went on to say that she did not like my attitude for assuming she did not try to quiet the kids. My reply was that the kids were so loud that I stopped what I was doing to ask the to quiet it down, which they did. I should have stopped there, but I added that I did not care what she thought of how I handled the situation.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
