What are peoples thoughts on asking WAW to come home or should that come from a decision she makes not a request from me...
Why? What has changed in the past dozen days?
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You can actually see her shut down. In a matter of minutes she can go From m happy to looking completely knackered.
IMHO, it doesn't sound as if she is quite ready. Is she seeing a doctor for her imbalanced hormones? Is she getting counseling? Is she still spending as much time in bed?
Going back together before she is more stable, could result in a fast relapse that would set her farther back. If that was to happen, it would be more difficult for her to try again. It seems to me that it would be better to give it more time.
Is she asking about coming home, or is it you that's getting anxious?
BTW, I meant to tell you earlier that you need to stop being Mr. Fixit. Women want to vent about their job\day. They want to be heard by their H......not fixed.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
