Part of my issue is that I don't see how I look after my emotional and financial interests in a divorce, but still entice her to return.
Jim, I don't have any great insights, but I struggle with this a lot as well. I don't know, maybe we just reach a point where the enticing no longer matters.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18