Great club to in! lol. I realize this won't be an overnight change, I have a lot of years to break down. The other day W sent me a text that S17 didn't feel good and asked to not go to school, she asked me to call S17 to tell him he has to go to school. She doesn't want to do this as this will make her be the bad cop so I have always taken care of these issues. I simply responded that I was busy(at work) so you need to deal with, I received a not so pleasant response. The more I get into this book everything seems to be getting a bit more clear for me. I have found a local group but the problem is they meet on the same night as the Divorce Care. Need to make a decision. I really wish I had this information years ago!