I don't see this as an EA. Even if I did, I'd rather have had h have an EA than a PA for sure.
Blue is working her a$$ off on the m.
She Endured the horror of a semi public affair in a small town, the OW was a nutcase to boot, Blu took her h back, pieced for 2 years, they Went to Retrovaille, and she is doing all that is human possible to feel the same way she used to feel, about her h.
She's trying to process the appeal of this OM and relate it to her h's A. She's gaining insight.
That is how I read her posts. I don't think she should end her marriage b/c there's a guy at work paying attention to her.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
