Awkward Situation Got Much Worse (part 3)

[joejoe1]

Tate,

I'm confused in a early post you say, "you are ready to throw in the towel", then you asked about boundaries. Then you were given information about setting and enforcing boundaries, and you back peddled. In this last post, you now say, kicking your wife out is a little extreme see, "how you are trying to work on the M". What is it going to be? Is kicking your wife out extreme? Is what your wife doing to you not extreme? Our choices as LBS are going to be extreme and hard. But I also understand we go back and forth as LBS in our emotions as well.