How do I get things right?

[Lovelyp]

Hey, This is going to be very hard for you to hear so I'll only say it once.

But imo, He's using your ONS a year ago, which you confessed, as his justification for affairs with OW. Just had to say it once.

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Thanks for your responses and advice.I appreciate that a lot.
He says I am being selfish because I am worried about just talking with OW when I cheated.He says I have no right to complain about it.

NC is the only thing you can do to protect yourself.

Are you seeing an IC for you? I really hope so

Yes so far I am doing well on NC. I feel so much peace and can concentrate. I have mental clarity and energy I never had for years.

I will start IC sessions after I settle. I will need to make time. I went for MC before but it was not that helpful because I was in denial about so many things, was extremely depressed and forgetful.