I don't want to repeat myself too much or it'll sound harsh to you. But BACK THE HE11 OFF.
Read the Div Busting chapter on NOT pursuing, again. Or review Sandi's guidelines "37" and take them in.
Let them sink in.
I hear you, I read about not pursing In DR/DB, also in the solo partner again and again, but obviously it is time to read them again. I also picked up another book called "No more mr nice guy".
I visit Sandi's Guidelines often, gonna have to try to "let them sink in" even harder. I've found it useful to look over those before seeing or talking to the W, maybe I'll do that more often.
The sun still rises, even though the pain.
Married: 10 Together: 17 M:40 W:37 D:13, S 7, S:5 1st Bomb dropped: 4/20/17 2nd Bomb dropped: 6/6/17 Separated: 7/26/17 W moved back home: 12/1/17
