We now live apart because of work commitments. We communicated for some time and he told me that he will never forgive me. he also mentioned that I am spolt and I need to tolerate when he is communicating with other women and also learn to live without physical affection.
Wow this^^^ is a lot of clarity (to me). Every piece of this^^ is unacceptable in a healthy (Christian) marriage. YOUR needs will not be met. Tough luck for you. You don't deserve to have your needs met. And you never will.
Hey, This is going to be very hard for you to hear so I'll only say it once.
But imo, He's using your ONS a year ago, which you confessed, as his justification for affairs with OW. Just had to say it once.
He is still emotionally available and all conversations he does not listen to me but wants me to understand him. He gives conditions on what I should do because he is hurt, I comply but he starts again to insult me. I decided that we need to be on separation tow hich he did not mention anything. Now NC to avoid further verbal and emotional abuse. He continues to want to talk but I avoid him
NC is the only thing you can do to protect yourself.
Are you seeing an IC for you? I really hope so
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
