Separation although wrong allows the insanity to stop and reflection of your situation to be truly studied. Also it gives you time to BE YOU, I would say don’t cater for his feelings and how you envisage the communications between you both panning out before they happen. You are a happy, confident outgoing person the world loves, acting that way will bring out the best in you.
You don’t need to allow anybody to bring you down with the internal issues they’re going through that’s not your role, you look after you. MWD talks about “act as if” when you have interactions with WH show the above ^^^^ stay away from R talks and D talks and all the other issues involved with your situation and just concentrate on showing the wonderful Lovelyp!
When you’re ready to talk about the MR or D you’ll know but until then set the boundaries and if it starts to go that direction pleasantly ask for a recess or ask him to stop or if it STILL continues ask him to leave. You shouldn’t have to be made to feel this way every time you come into contact with each other that’s no way to live!
Does showing the above Lovelyp make you more attractive..? Yes but remember you’re doing this for you don’t let WH bring you down.
M.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
