Thanks EastTN. This is exactly the type of roasting I wanted a month or so ago!
You are probably 100% correct, but I don't think OM played a role in helping my M to end. Who knows and who cares? I have regained my self-confidence. I'm probably taking the offer and going to see the girl this weekend.
JPG Le Male is too "exotic" for my taste, and I think it's a bit too common. Otherwise a really good choice.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship