How do I get things right?

[Lovelyp]

We now live apart because of work commitments. We communicated for some time and he told me that he will never forgive me. he also mentioned that I am spolt and I need to tolerate when he is communicating with other women and also learn to live without physical affection. He is still emotionally available and all conversations he does not listen to me but wants me to understand him. He gives conditions on what I should do because he is hurt, I comply but he starts again to insult me. I decided that we need to be on separation tow hich he did not mention anything. Now NC to avoid further verbal and emotional abuse. He continues to want to talk but I avoid him