Eau de cologne/toilette/parfym. Basically tells how much of it is the active fragrance and tells how long it lasts. You can get the same fragrance in different forms
I agree with your points. However fragrance shouldn't be used everywhere since people can be allergic. But obviously when going out etc.
I was surprised that you didn't tell me not to go to the date. I'm now back at work after the weekend and the first thing the coworker said "...sssoooo? Are you going?".
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship