Thanks. I have explored NGS but that wasn’t my main issue in the m. I was more the work and kids focused H. W was a SAHM who felt she was trapped in that role and that I didn’t pay enough attention to her, that our R wasn’t a high enough priority. The original guidance was to listen and pay attention to her and build an emotional connection, to be her best friend. That was what I was doing for the past year until recently when OM2 came into the picture.
when I first saw your thread - whenever it was, I recall thinking, "Oh geez, 5 kids??"
And it's (now) rare for me to jump on the MLC bandwagon but it struck me back then, that it fit.
OTOH, so what?
I mean, what's the difference if she's with an OM and acts like it?
It's about you & the kids, now. Seriously.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
